Relationship Counselling
Turn into what you a most looking for in the other….
” You don’t need to have serious difficulties, or problems for you, as a couple to get something deeply valuable from a couples counselling session.
Every relationship holds the possibility to grow and evolve together; for opening new doors, and new levels of togetherness and intimacy.
It is possible to move through challenges and grow in love, even when our paths diverge”
Why Relationship Counselling?
* To find each other newly beneath the old familiar relationship dynamics
* To open and touch on delicate topics
* When we have reached an impasse
* When we want to go deeper together
* To meet each other more intimately
* To part in love…
About Relationship Counselling
“Meeting with a counsellor, a third person, is a delicate matter where both of you need to trust that you are equally seen and heard. When that is present, a safe space is available for you both to see and touch what is ready to be addressed. The magnified field of awareness immidiately changes something in the famiiar dynamics allowing a deeper and finer listening to uncover more of what calls for new understanding, care and change in each of you, and between you.
For couples, or relationship counselling to make a real difference, there need to be an openness and a willingness on both sides to honestly look at yourself.”
About Me
As a certified Danish Psychotherapist and transpersonal counsellor I bring 24 years of counselling experience to my sessions, and welcome you into a space where we first honor the real and good that is there in anyone, no matter the circumstances.
I like to listen, engage, and intervene when asked for, to help you stay clear on the path, and to offer insights and deeper perspective when relevant.
To me the counselling space is a creatively alive unfolding of what is possible when two, or more are togehter…
I offer a free 20 min. “meet & greet” online before booking, to see if I am right for you both
Booking:
Email to contact@beingone.ca
Call, or text 780 394 4019
“Originally, to start with, human beings create all these mind relationships, these mental relationships, these splittings in relationships, to protect the love, to protect the heart from hurt. That protection comes from ignorance. We do not know that our heart is indestructible. The heart cannot be destroyed. Your heart is more permanent than your body. Even when you feel hurt, it is not ultimately your heart that is hurt. What is hurt are your identifications, your self-image, your pride. So to continue loving regardless of what happens is not giving in to the other person; it is giving in to your heart, to your nature. Sometimes we do not allow ourselves to feel loving, and to be loving, and to act loving. This is because we think that loving means we are going to be weak, or that we are going to be taken advantage of, or exploited, or that we are being stupid, or that we are going to lose something. The fact is that the moment you close your heart, you are the one who loses. If you give in to your heart, it does not mean that you are giving in to the other person. It does not mean you are giving in to negativity. You are giving in to your nature. You are surrendering to who you are. To be always loving does not mean that you do not defend yourself. The courageous heart perceives and acknowledges what is there—good or bad. It does not pretend that there is no negativity. It perceives the negativity and deals with it with love. So to continue to be loving does not mean that you are weak. It does not mean that you are going to be dominated by someone. In fact, to have a courageous heart means you are able to be inwardly alone and independent. There is no true autonomy without a courageous heart. And there is no courageous heart without true autonomy.” A.H. Almass
Diamond Heart Book Four, pg. 201